Friday, March 21, 2014

The Sadness of Gregor's Lonesome

          Gregor Samsa is a selfless person with no one to love and no one to truly love him back. He is a traveling salesman who lives mainly on the road, going from place to place, never living in one place to make friends or be close to family all the time. Whenever he is home however, he is never looked out for or noticed in a cared-for way. When the story starts, he wakes up as a giant, nasty bug and doesn't know how or why, but it's really reality. He can't open the door right away when his family and manager call for him at his bed room door, so they do become worried. "But at least people now thought that things were not completely all right with him and were prepared to help him" (Kafka 6). Gregor is realizing that maybe his family does care for him on some level, because they don't leave him alone when he never opens the door for them. Instead they worryingly try to call for him, and ask if he's okay, and go to get the door open with a locksmith. From the text, it doesn't seem that they are mad at Gregor for not opening his door, nor careless, but curious and in worrisome. Gregor gets somewhat of a rush of pleasure from being the one getting the attention, and simply being cared about in a direct way. "He felt himself included once again in the circle of humanity..." (Kafka 6). Gregor expresses his feelings of feeling important, and the one his manager and family are paying attention to, and trying to free him from his 'locked' room. He expresses it in the manor of being a part of the human connection again, showing how incredibly lonely and sad he is that he doesn't feel like a human being anymore. In the irony of that, he is in fact not a human being anymore physically, but literally a giant insect. From this scene, when his family and manager are trying to figure out if he's alright and how to get the door open since he cannot, Gregor feels loved in the way every person should feel, especially from their own family, but also from other people they know and/or love. This moment, before he opens the door and reveals his insect-self to everyone, he feels a slight happiness, in which he rarely feels most of the time.



            When Gregor wakes up that morning and sees himself as an insect, he doesn't seem to care or fear it, but only notice it, and then complain about other things that a normal still-a-human person would on a daily basis. The idea of realizing you are a giant bug when you wake up from sleep sounds horrifying and very concerning and surreal. Gregor doesn't react the way one would think, and it shows his sadness in how he doesn't fear his new self. "Gregor’s glance then turned to the window. The dreary weather—the rain drops were falling audibly down on the metal window ledge—made him quite melancholy. 'Why don’t I keep sleeping for a little while longer and forget all this foolishness,' he thought" (Kafka 1). His emotion is little and quite calm for such a crazy change of himself. After he has examined himself as a nasty bug, he looks out the window to see the melancholy weather, gray color and rain, which only reminds himself of his sadness. It shows that his life has such a sadness, that he isn't more saddened by the fact he's turned into a giant bug. He instead thinks reality will go away after he sleeps a little more, knowing he was awake since he just woke up from his 'anxious dreams'. The sadness derives completely from his loneliness, form no love to receive, and much potential love to give. When he wakes up, analyzing his body and the weather, he looks at his picture on the wall. "... hung the picture which he had cut out of an illustrated magazine a little while ago and set in a pretty gilt frame. It was a picture of a woman with a fur hat and a fur boa" (Kafka 1). This picture is a random women from a magazine who he has no personal relationship with whatsoever, as she's a stranger. To cut out a picture and hang it with a tack, or get a poster of a random woman is something for show or fun, but to cut out a stranger and put the picture in a frame is different. Framing pictures shows a care for its expense and art, or because the picture is personal; family, friends, or other loved ones. The fact the Gregor frames a woman he doesn't know shows the love he is willing to give and have, but to something unlovable. He is clearly lonely, and enough to not frame his own family, but someone he wishes to know, or even just another human. His sadness and loneliness are one, and his emotions, actions, and his bed room show this in a thought through, intricate way. 







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